Questions and complaints about moderation + unlisted, mostly unmoderated, free discussion

Let us see an example. “Its like saying a combustion engine car should have wooden wheels…” could be seen as not relevant, not interesting, or off-topic in regard to the topic which was “Is the modern Power Kite the answer to Kite Power?”, not the “wooden wheels” or “combustion engine” by transposing your argument. I could quote numerous other examples.

Moreover you just added some other distinct categories for moderation as “relevant, interesting” beside “on topic”, while I indicated the degree of relevance in regard to the on-topic scale. It is not the same. By this you indicate you could moderate something because it is not interesting, whether it is on-topic or not.

Adding “I would like to give preference to my wishes”. Is a moderation tool appropriate in regard to “preference” or “wishes”?